When the goodnights stop meaning anything

“You and your partner are getting ready for bed — brushing teeth, plugging in phones, the usual routine. At some point they climb into bed and turn toward their side, and you get in on yours. You pull the covers up and lie there in the dark, and it hits you: no kiss goodnight, no hand on your back, nothing. It's not the first time. You're not even sure when it became the routine.”