When supporting them feels like silencing yourself

“Your partner has been mentioning a job opportunity for weeks — something that would mean more money but longer hours and a commute that would change both your lives. They keep framing it as 'just an idea,' but tonight they mentioned they already have an interview lined up for next week. You have a real concern about what this would do to your time together, and you haven't said it yet because you didn't want to be the one who holds them back.”