The thing that bugs you every night

“You and your partner are getting ready for bed — teeth brushed, lights off, the usual wind-down. Then your partner's phone lights up the whole room, they scroll for a minute, laugh quietly at something, and set it face-down. It's 11:30. This is every night. You've been tired and a little resentful about it for weeks, but you've never actually said anything. You lie there in the dark, wide awake.”